A couple of weeks ago, while catching up on some reading, I came across a post from Mack Collier (the leader and brains behind Sunday night #blogchat on Twitter) titled: Turning Failure into Success. I suggest that everyone check it out and read it, but if you can’t, here’s a quicker overview. Mack tells a story of his lack of preparedness in a college Business Communication presentation, his train of thought completely derailed, and even how he considered abandoning ship. Nine years later, at the B2B Forum, he found himself wishing he was presenting there – a far cry from the nervous kid who wanted to run nine years before.
I sent Mack a brief tweet and let him know how great I thought his post was and got an interesting comment back from him, stating that he hesitates to write personal stories because he doesn’t think anyone reads them.
I was absolutely surprised to read this. If you’ve never read Mack’s blog or followed him on Twitter, I’ve always found him to be very personal. His writing style is very open and honest, so I was surprised to hear that he doesn’t usually like to tell personal stories. I am the exact opposite and love to tell personal stories that somehow relate or lead into the points I am about to make.
I wonder why bloggers feel this way. Mack isn’t the first blogger I’ve corresponded with who feels like their personal stories are unwelcome in their posts. For those, like Mack, who feel like personal stories are often pushed to the wayside, I offer, as a reader, two thoughts on storytelling and blogging.
Everyone is a storyteller. No, not everyone is going to be able to sit down and hammer out a novel the likes of Stephen King or Tom Clancy, but everyone has experiences. We have all been in one place or another and had a moment resonate with us, so don’t fool yourself into thinking you don’t have a story to tell.
Everything has a story. Look at this post – what’s the story here? The story is that Mack told me something surprising and it made me think, and this post was born. Those are the kind of things that I love to know when reading a post. Where did your inspiration come from? What made you think that this story was relevant to the topic that you wanted to write about? Those are the things I want to read about, the things I want to know.
What you’re saying about a certain subject is just as important as how you go the place where you had to sit down and write your thoughts out. I want to know that, I want to feel your passion and your feelings on the subject. What do you think? Are you like Mack and feel like no one wants to read your personal stories, or do you write more like me who believes that every story is worth telling?