Have you ever seen the movie Down With Love?
I have seen it so many times. You have to look beyond the fact that it didn’t get great reviews and see it as what it really is — it a satirical piece that pokes gentle, but loving, fun at the rom-coms of the 60’s. It happened to be on a couple of weeks ago and I watched it with a friend. (Sidenote: Movies like this should always be watched with your best friend. It makes them way more fun.)
The movie was so flawless in its satire – even right down to the over the top, wild hand gestures. David Hyde Pierce really has those down pat. My friend and I determined that everything should have big, over the top hand gestures. It makes things more exciting. Simply reading your lines in a movie and expecting a reaction is not going to be effective. The reason Down With Love works is because the actors and directors took special steps to make sure they moved and spoke in a way that would make the audience feel a certain way. The hand movements and camera angle were supposed to look cheesy — so that I would remember my love of 60s rom-coms and giggle.
The next time you host an event or a web conference, think about how you are using the tools at your disposal to evoke emotions in your participants. Much like an actor, your tools are limited to your voice, movements, and facial expression. When you’re without one or more of these elements, like on a conference call, it makes it harder to get the reactions you want and you could end up failing. Think about when Hollywood made the move to “talking pictures” rather than silent films, many of the faces that people had grown to love were no longer a viable part of Hollywood because they had really unattractive voices.
It’s not really a shock, then, that I am often suggesting that you are aware of the way you sound. Which is where this title comes into play — Down With Love has inspired me to advise to be Down With Being Boring.
- Stop writing out all of your notes on a page and reading them word for word.
- Stop standing behind a podium.
- Stop mumbling.
- Stop leaving your audience out of the presentation.
- Start making a bullet list so that you can follow a guide for your presentation instead of droning on and on. (People know when you’re reading from a list)
- Step out from behind the podium and walk around the stage during live presentations. Movements are natural.
- Speak clearly and enunciate. Be sure you host a sound check with the conference call provider or the venue to have a sound check.
- Leave plenty of time for a Q&A session. The information you’re presenting will surely raise questions along the way — questions that only you can answer.
On your next presentation or conference call, try taking the down with being boring approach and see how your feedback changes. What do you do to keep from being boring when you make presentations?